Quiz, Short Stories

Jellybean taste test

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My daughter is home from a sleepover.
As a surprise, I got her some jelly beans,
which she asked for a few days ago.
We are now having a jelly bean ‘taste off’!
There are a few flavors she claims to not like but I’m not picky, I’ll eat ’em all.

So are you into jelly beans?
Do you have a specific flavor of preference?
Or are you like me and would devour them all?

 


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Contents compiled: March 19 2017
Originally published: March 21 2017
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Quiz, Short Stories

Show and Tell

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Tell me your quirks
and I’ll tell you mine.

Here are a couple of mine
Just to get the ball rolling.

1. I don’t like carpet. I prefer hard wood floors and trow rugs that can add lovely warmth to a room but can be picked up and cleaned/washed regularly.

My logic is, because carpet can’t be deep cleaned weekly it’s just a harbor for germs. I’m pretty finicky when it comes to germs.

2. If I’m grocery shopping,  I use produce bags to keep all my meat from touching the rest of my grocery. I do that for my cleaning supplies too.

3. If I get to the grocery checkout and the conveyor belt is dirty I will make them clean it before I put my groceries on there. Why? Because that liquid I see could very well be juices from meat.

4. I like things neat and organized. Chaos and clutter make me crazy.

So what are your ‘preferences’ that some might find ‘quirky’?

Do you think I’m ‘quirky’?

 


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Contents compiled: March 18 2017
Originally published: March 18 2017
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Quiz

Coke vs Dr Pepper

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Quick Fun facts about me:
1. I prefer Coke instead of Dr Pepper.
2. I never add ice to my drink since
     a) I get more drink for my money
     b) The ice makes my drink watery (and too cold)
3. Fast food is a rare event for us. We take lunch and snacks with us from home everyday. Saves a ton of money!

So which do you prefer,  Coke or Dr Pepper?

 


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Contents compiled: March 2 2017
Originally published: March 2 2017
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Short Stories

I may be an ‘Ambivert’

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I just came across this term while reading another blog. I always thought one was either an ‘introvert’  or ‘extrovert’. I never knew there was a term for those in between — an ‘Ambivert’. It makes perfect sense!!

Google says, an Ambivert is a person whose personality has a balance of extrovert and introvert features.

 

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I always assumed I was an introvert with healthy developmental skills to ‘act’ like an extrovert when needed. I can mingle and be social but I have to know of the event way in advance to mentally prepare to be social. Last minute events tend to throw me off and I tend to not be very compliant.

Furthermore, I always assumed that it was my job in the service industry,  that helped me be less introverted as I had to learn how to communicate with many different personalities on a daily basis. But now I know there’s a term for us ‘in-between-ers’. Whether or not it was inherent or developed as a survival skill is left to be determined, but I’m glad I got to know myself a little better today.

Visit BayArt for the post that got my noggin thinking and searching. Happy reading!

Hugs,
A🌷 ☺

 


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Contents compiled: January 8 2017
Originally published: January 9 2017
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Short Stories

The first born dilemma

From very early on First-borns learn to behave or else! As a result, they hold themselves accountable for their actions and the consequences thereof. This character trait can be a blessing for it speaks to their integrity and sincerity, but it can also be a curse since they often accept blame where there should be none, beating themselves up unnecessarily.

First-borns are the ones everyone expects to be okay. The ones who always manage to rise above. The ones who never really ask for help, yet are always ready to help others. See, no one expects firstborns to be weak. The first born is next in line after the parents. They are the high-achieving people-pleasers. The ones their parents leave in charge of the others. The ones always expected to be responsible. The ones who are supposed to know better!

Well that’s a lot of pressure for a first born and sometimes they can’t handle the burdens placed on them (visible or invisible). Sometimes they need someone else to shoulder some of the responsibility. Sometimes, just sometimes, as super human as they appear to be, they need help! Yet, try as they might, delegating is rather a tough task to master since they still feel ultimately responsible as quality control is of primary concern.

First-borns don’t trust just anyone to handle important responsibilities. They need help from somone who understands the dynamic of sibling tendencies and personality limitations. It can be someone who understands how much they do. Someone who appreciates their tremendous efforts even if they can’t successfully help beyond moral support. Someone who sincerely wants the best for them. Someone who gets their need to be understood, to be cared for, to be cherished and respected. These are the things a first-born clings to dearly. They thrive on sincerity, they long for companions who understand why they are the way they are and they feel so safe when they find that one person who can see into their soul — anticipating their every need physically, emotionally, spiritually and otherwise. Such a person can be very hard to find since firstborns can hold others to very high standards. But once found they do their best to keep them close and are ravaged when that person is gone.

To be understood, appreciated and accepted for who they really are is the ultimate high a first-born can feel since they were/are held to high standards from birth and those intrinsic values undoubtedly stay with them for life.

They strive for quality, not quantity, and they search for meaning, substance and wholeness relentlessly. They can be a bit quirky since they need to find unique ways to cope with the burden of ‘being perfect’ in the eyes of their parents and those around them. Their sense of perfectionism carries over to many aspects of their lives and can even interfere with decision making skills/abilities.

Some of them need to have a plan for everything, while some are petrified at the thought of making the wrong decision so they refuse to plan at all. Indeed, they can be very extreme!

For example:
– they can be neat and tidy all over the house but have a colossal mess in one special area that’s hidden from immediate view.
– they can follow instructions to a ‘T’ at work but notoriously refuse to read instruction manuals or follow recipes.
– they can love you with all their heart or refuse to invest in love at all, despising the concept completely.
– They can be super strict at work and a mushy mess at home especially with matters of the heart.
– They can be super smart intellectually while clueless/naive in certain matters of life.
– They either love too much or not at all; either care too much or couldn’t be bothered; either all in or all out!

Yes, first borns can be weird! Their Type A personality requires so much discipline that it can totally overwhelm them. They are detail-oriented workaholics with the propensity to over analyze EVERYTHING!

See, I’m a first born so I speak from experience. And if I seem a bit harsh, that’s just me beating myself up like a typical first born, no ill will intended to anyone else, honest!

I met Someone once who understood the firstborn dynamic without even realizing it. Why? Because that person was a first born also! That person understood me so easily — intellectually, emotionally, comically, spiritually and in many other ways. The high I felt from being understood was uphoric! It’s been a long time since I connected with anyone on that level and it freakin blew my mind! I’m not the needy type. I’m supposed to be strong — The fearless first-born, notorious for being independent. Notorious for being off in my own world not caring what the rest of the family thinks. Notorious for making my own way. Notorious for breaking their rules so I can live by my own. The daredevil first-born who has had ‘stunts of defiance’ named after me simply because I was tired of doing what was ‘expected’ and had to break free.

But when this person entered my world I was frozen like a deer in head lights. I was mush! I didn’t know what to do because my “normal” had shifted off-balance — the bar was raised. I felt a sense of completeness having that person around and now everyone else seems inferior. Sigh…

Life has a way of throwing us curve balls and this person showing up was definitely a Big Ole Curve Ball. I had gotten so used to settling for “ok” but now I know “ok” isn’t good enough, I want more! I now expect better of my employees, friends and significant other (when that time comes). That person has since moved on to bigger and better things, and with all transitions of life our paths converged briefly and have now taken us in different directions. I am blessed to have met such an individual and hope I never forget my uphoria for it has truly opened up my soul/vision/horizons in anticipation of better things to come. Thank you dear friend for picking up my snow globe and giving it a good shake! I guess it was time for the life I knew inside my little bubble to be examined thoroughly.  The winds of change are coming and you’ve given me permission to expect more!  Be well my friend where ever you are.  You are amazing!  😊

Note 1:

My thoughts on this topic are based on a book by Dr Kevin Leman called “The Birth Order Book: why you are the way you are”, as well as my own observations of first born behavior.

Note 2: 

First born characteristics can also be seen in persons of other birth orders if there is a huge gap in births or if older siblings (perhaps from a previous marriage/relationship) do not live in the same home.

I find this topic extremely fascinating! It’s so amazing how the human mind works and how our behavior is altered simply by our birth order.

Thanks for stopping by. Feel free to share your thoughts.

Best wishes,
A.

*Originally published November 2015


Contents written: October 20 2015 | Edited: October 25,  November 16 2015 | Copyright 2015 Moylom Enterprises


Short Stories

4 things that make me cringe

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We all have pet peeves.
Yep, those things that really get under our skin! The things that gross us out. The deal-breakers! See a few of mine below:

1. All talk and no action
This is a big one for me.
I’ve come across a few of these people in my life. The ones who promise you the world — the ones who talk a good game but in the end that’s all it is, just talk! What a let down. I’ve had to cut my losses many times with folks like this. I’m wondering how much cutting I’ll have to do yet.

2. Hotel carpet
I grew up with carpet but my mother was meticulous with cleaning. Everyday those carpets were vacuumed. No seriously, I mean EVERY SINGLE DAY! And sure enough we got new carpet every few years.

As an adult, however, I grew to dislike carpet because of what I saw in my line of work. My eyes were open to what carpet really was — a germ magnet. My philosophy became if I couldn’t wash/clean it regularly I didn’t want it in my house.

I’ve been traveling lately and I was super pleased to not have carpet in my hotel room for the first leg of my trip. Unfortunately the second leg wasn’t as fun. Cheaper hotel = you get what you pay for. I’m happy to be saving money and that have a roof over my head but this creepy brown carpet is completely grossing me out. Yuk!!!

3. Dirty kitchen/ Bathroom
I like things clean but I admit there are certain things I can overlook. However, when it comes to the kitchen and bathroom, I need those two places to be clean or else!!! Deal-breaker? You better believe it!

4. Fake friends
Yep, the ones who want to be around you because of an agenda — because of what they can get from you. I’ve had many of those in my life too. At this point in my life I’m pretty much done with fakers. If your not for me,  then by default your against me.

I treat people the way I’d like to be treated but if others don’t share those values then I have to ask myself the question, “why are we friends?”

So what are your pet peeves?
What makes you crazy?
What gets under your skin?
What are your deal-breaker?

Excited to hear your feedback.
Thanks for stopping by.

Hugs
A

 

 


Image source: Google images
Contents compiled: November 24 2016
Originally published: November 24 2016
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